Donkey card game rules: how to play both versions
Telling them apart in one question
Do you pass cards, or play them to a trick? If cards get passed face down around the table until someone collects four of a kind, you want the matching game. If everyone plays one card to the middle and has to follow the suit led, you want the Bhabhi game — which is the one this site is about.
| Donkey (shedding) | Donkey (matching) | |
|---|---|---|
| Also called | Bhabhi, Thulla, Getaway, Laad | Pig, Spoons (variant) |
| Type | Trick-based shedding | Collecting / matching |
| Goal | Empty your hand | Collect four of a kind |
| Deck | Full 52 cards | Four cards per player |
| The donkey is | Last player holding cards | Last player to touch their nose |
How to play Donkey, the Indian card game
This is the game played across India, Pakistan, Bangladesh and Nepal under a dozen names, Bhabhi and Thulla among them. You need one standard 52-card deck and three to six players.
- Deal every card. Shuffle and deal the whole deck out clockwise, one card at a time. Some players may get one card more than others.
- The Ace of Spades leads. Whoever holds it plays it as the first card of the game.
- Follow the suit. Going round the table, everyone must play a card of the suit that was led if they have one.
- If everyone follows, the round is discarded. Those cards leave the game for good. Whoever played the highest card starts the next round with any card they like.
- If you can’t follow, play anything. That off-suit card (a thulla) stops the round at once. Whoever played the highest card of the led suit picks up every card on the table and starts the next round.
- Empty your hand to escape. The last player still holding cards is the donkey.
A regional variant played around Kasaragod in Kerala adds a trump suit, which changes the game substantially — off-suit trumps can win tricks rather than just ending them. The Kazhutha page explains that version.
Full rules, with a worked example →
Donkey with 2, 3 or more players
The whole deck is always dealt, so the number of players sets the size of each hand:
| Players | Cards each | How it plays |
|---|---|---|
| 2 | 26 | Works, but weak: an off-suit card picks up only two cards |
| 3 | 18, 17, 17 | Slow start, fast finish |
| 4 | 13 each | The classic table |
| 5 | 11, 11, 10, 10, 10 | Off-suit cards arrive in the first few rounds |
| 6 | 9, 9, 9, 9, 8, 8 | Sharp from the first round; 7 or more need two decks |
More on each size: three players, and why two is not the real game, and five, six or more players.
Donkey, the matching game
The children’s game, for roughly 3–13 players (4–7 is best). Take as many sets of four matching cards as there are players and deal four to each person.
- Everyone picks one card they don’t want.
- On a count, everyone passes that card face down to the player on their left, all at once.
- Repeat until somebody holds four of a kind.
- That player silently puts their cards down and touches their nose. Everyone else must notice and copy. The last to do it loses.
The loser of each hand takes a letter of the word D-O-N-K-E-Y. Spell the whole word and you are out — so everyone starts with six lives.
It is a game of peripheral vision, and it is not related to Bhabhi at all beyond sharing an insult for the loser.
Kazhutha, Kalutai and the rest
“Donkey” is simply the English translation of what the loser gets called in several Indian languages — kazhutha in Malayalam, kalutai in Tamil. In Punjabi-speaking families the older insult was bhabhi, though many tables have moved to “donkey” precisely because it’s the harmless one.